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Google quits censoring search in China – CNN.com

Monday, March 22nd, 2010

Google quits censoring search in China – CNN.com.

Imagine living in China, where you no longer can “google” someone.

“Googling” is such a common part of our lives, that living without it is almost unimaginable.

We never used 411 as much as we use Google.

It’s a fairly vital and valuable business tool.

Effectively, the Chinese government has reduced workforce productivity by this policy of restricting free access to information.  Seems to me that’s the wrong direction for a country so entrenched in providing goods to the rest of us.

That is the direct cost to their productivity.  The indirect cost is the psychological impact that is surely taking a toll upon the Chinese citizens.   Many of us feel frustration on their behalf, imagine how they must be feeling.

Google’s statement is quite clear and they have quite a high profile.  They’re not doing business with China.  It will be interesting to see who follows suit in the coming months and years.

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High Chair Recall Alert / Healthcare Reform Legislation

Sunday, March 21st, 2010

CPSC Recalls – Parenting.com.

Remarkably, the highchair recall presents an interesting parallel to the healthcare reform bill passage that merits discussion.  I’m not coming down on one side or another, but today’s “high chair recall” makes a clear point about the free market and government regulation.

If a company produces a dangerous product, consumers hold them accountable.  This is why we see so many voluntary recalls these days – companies understand that it is better for everyone that they find potential problems before consumers get hurt.  If they don’t, they may be in business tomorrow, even the next day.  But their days are numbered.  Consumers put irresponsible companies out of business in a free market economy.  Ultimately, the federal government steps in and creates legislation to compel adherence to specific standards that the American people deem mandatory.

Health insurance has two interesting fundamental precepts that lend the overall business its form.  These two principles are called moral hazard and adverse selection.  These are the “forces” that naturally arise from the business of insuring peoples’ health.  I won’t get into the details of these principles, you can follow the links to learn more.

My point in mentioning these two principles is that in all the discussions we have heard, we have never heard these principles mentioned by our legislators.  On either side of the “aisle”.  Yet, when we speak about insuring pre-existing conditions, which is one of the louder points being made, these two principles make up the fundamental character of the health insurance playing field.  Any legislation passed is going to “push” at these naturally occurring forces, and mandate a necessary shift away from the fundamental meaning of insuring against accident and illness.

In simpler terms, if you legislate this industry too much, it ceases to function as insurance.  You can still call it that, but it doesn’t mean it is anymore.  And perhaps that is indeed a better model of protecting peoples’ health.  But as Americans, we believe in having a voice in our destiny.  We all have a say in the direction our country takes.  We are called upon to voice our opinions so that our representatives can vote our will.

It is therefore clear that we should be educated as to the short term, long term and fundamental impact that this legislation poses.  I’m hearing much about cost, and the financial impact in terms of national debt and the financial impact upon individuals, but I’m not hearing anyone sitting down and being the teacher.  Explaining the fundamentals to us.  This is a highly complex industry.  There are subtleties that have tremendous impact.  As Americans, we needed a class in Health Insurance 101.  Then we needed a class on each of the possible methods to improve the current system.  Then, and only then, could we have voiced an educated opinion.  Instead, the majority of Americans do not favor this legislation, when really, know one, not even the legislators, know exactly what’s in it (by their own admission).

Ultimately, the health insurance industry is like any other industry.  It is just so much larger than any other.  It is also so much more important to us at the critical moments in our lives.  And therefore we experience heightened emotion surrounding this issue.

Again, it seems that the majority of  Americans did not favor this legislation.  So perhaps instead of discussing the potential merits or drawbacks of a nationalized healthcare system, or even whether that’s what this bill will create; instead, we should talk about how it feels to us as Americans that our Congressional representatives do not feel compelled to vote their constituents will.

Those who favor this legislation are celebrating their victory.  However, it should concern the victors that their victory comes by way of a significant dissolution of one of the fundamental principles of our democracy – majority rules.  We cannot feel good about legislation that passes without the majority of voters wanting it.  It may be what the minority wants today, and that is a victory for them (or us, not taking sides) to be sure, but tomorrow, when they (or we) are with the majority, there’s no guarantee that their (our) voice will be heard.  It’s very clearly bad precedent for a democracy and emotionally it demoralizes the nation’s majority.  The emotional toll may have a lasting impact on our society for years to come.

This blog and its administration seeks to avoid taking any political positions.  Any inadvertent support of one side over another with respect to the healthcare reform legislation is unintentional.  We seek to highlight the emotional and psychological impact of this debate and help create clarity through acknowledging the impact that emotions have on this very important issue.

Oh, and make sure you check to see if you’re using a Graco Model 1757412 high chair.  Especially if you’re uninsured.

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Online Counseling

Saturday, March 20th, 2010

Ok, here’s a good one.  A psychologist I know treats adolescents.  A few weeks back, a new client came into the office.

He was 15.

He sat in silence for 50 minutes.

At the end of the session, the psychologist asked if he would like to see him online next week.

The boy lit up.

“You can do that?!”

Online Counseling isn’t a new thing, but so few are aware of it.

Online counseling made the difference for the 15 year old.

That next week, the boy couldn’t stop typing.

He covered so much, in such detail, that the psychologist realized that there can be no doubt that for some people, online counseling is actually more effective at getting them to open-up.

Twitter, Facebook, MyTherapyNet.  They all broaden our horizons as human beings – connecting us and healing us.

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Study: Helpful Dads Damage Mother’s Self-Esteem at Home – Mental Health | Illness | Disorders – FOXNews.com

Friday, March 19th, 2010

Study: Helpful Dads Damage Mother’s Self-Esteem at Home – Mental Health | Illness | Disorders – FOXNews.com.

Ok, this one bothers me.

I’m a helpful Dad … on the continuum, I’m the guy other Dad’s secretly hate because I manage to make the time to do the things with my children that I know I would regret not doing in later years.

I’ve had other Dad’s literally tell me to stop.

I’ve heard stories of wives using me against their husbands in arguments.

I’ve felt bad, I don’t want to be a gender-traitor, but I refuse to change my values to suit others.

Now we see there’s a study that can be used against guys like me.

Certainly, I don’t want to be the cause of my wife’s mental health demise.

But as I look back at my life, and I look back at my wife’s mental health, I have to say that this study leaves out an important factor.

I’ll get to that, but first allow me to fill in some blanks.

My wife’s self-esteem is just fine.  She has no issues pertaining to her role as a wife and mother.

Why did she escape unscathed from the clutches of a husband’s overzealous involvement in their children’s lives?

Good mental health.

1 in 4 Americans suffer from a diagnosable mental health disorder.  This could be stress, depression or relationship issues – those are the most common.

Point being, once you’re behind the 8-ball, it doesn’t take much to send you over the edge.

Let’s not use this study to support the notion that Fathers should be lazy.  Let’s instead support the notion that new mothers, no matter how mentally healthy, need additional support.  Having a child is stressful, and yes, there are social pressures.  The answer is therapy, not lazy fathers.

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Stress and Life

Friday, March 19th, 2010

Boy, do stress and life go together hand in glove.

Ultimately, it’s how you deal with the stress that matters – you’re going to have stressed no matter who you are, what walk of life you stroll, or whether you sit or stand to relieve yourself.

I once had a friend tell me that his wife was delusional to claim to be stressed.  After all, he said, all she has to do is take care of the kids!  I have to go out and work!

Many of you probably share that view.

I’m not going to stand in judgement, but just the same, I hope you’ll hear the following with an open mind.

Everyone feels stress at a maximum level.  It’s a human trait.

Sure, some situations are life threatening, and those stresses definitely seem more intense.

But my contention is that we all find things to maximally stress out over.

So my friend was dead wrong – his wife had every reason to be as stressed out as she was.

Although, if you ask me, she could have definitely benefited from therapy.

It’s all about how you manage stress, not about trying to avoid stress.  Stress is probably the single most effective motivator known to humanity.  It’s also the single greatest killer of humanity (some accounts have 75% of all disease caused by stress).  It depletes spirit, mind and body when managed poorly.

So stop trying to avoid things that stress you, start learning how to manage stress.  Once you do, you’ll find yourself able to nimbly navigate your life, achieving your goals and living a happy, well adjusted life.

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What to do if your car suddenly accelerates

Wednesday, March 3rd, 2010

Some expert guidance on what to do should your car accelerate uncontrollably.

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New study: Young marijuana smokers at higher risk for psychoses – CNN.com

Wednesday, March 3rd, 2010

Teens who started using marijuana at ages 14 or 15 had a higher risk of schizophrenia, according to a mew study.

It looks like pot is bad for you again.  It turns out that the risk of developing psychoses increases significantly for teens who begin smoking marijuana at 14 or 15.  Since the adolescent brain is still developing, it may be particularly vulnerable to the effects of drugs.

New study: Young marijuana smokers at higher risk for psychoses – CNN.com.

If you suspect your child is using marijuana, the time to act is immediately.  Young people may be reticent to go to a therapist in person, but may find it exciting to do so online.  Check out www.MyTherapyNet.com and check your child into online treatment.

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Remains likely those of missing California teen, sheriff says – CNN.com

Wednesday, March 3rd, 2010

Chelsea King, 17

Remains likely those of missing California teen, sheriff says – CNN.com.

Our thoughts and prayers are with Chelsea’s family during this extremely difficult time.

It’s been widely reported that the psychiatrist who testified at the molestation trial of the suspect in this crime recommended the maximum sentence because the suspect showed no remorse and there isn’t a known treatment for someone like him.  We’ve attempted to make contact with the prosecutor and judge in that case to better understand why the recommendation wasn’t taken into consideration.  As of this posting, we have not heard back.

Mental health is a very serious subject, and the root of great tragedy and cause of many physical diseases.  However, possibly due to the stigma associated with mental illness, it rarely receives the attention it deserves.

Case in point is the proposed healthcare legislation.  If anyone has heard any mention of improving mental healthcare access and benefits, leave us a comment below.  Although certainly “wrapped into” the current proposal, not emphasizing mental health treatment is negligent in this day and age, with the overwhelming amount of data that exists to support the notion that mental health directly impacts physical health.

Once again, our thoughts and prayers are with the King family.

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Are you a sex addict? Online Counseling may help.

Tuesday, March 2nd, 2010

Tiger Woods sex addiction

Click for Article –>>  Are you a sex addict? – CNN.com.

Tigers been in the news an awful lot lately, and not for his prowess on the golf course.

Although Tiger’s case is extreme, there are many people who are afflicted by a  compulsive sex drive.  Although there is debate on the details of sex addiction from a clinical standpoint, the end result is the same – families are shattered, careers are derailed and personal lives become public disgraces.

Dr. Kathleene Derrig-Palumbo, a clinical psychologist based in Southern California, sees a silver lining in the Tiger case.  “If Tiger uses this opportunity to bring awareness to the very serious repercussions of sex addiction, perhaps more people will reach out to a professional for help before the situation escalates and degenerates … and it nearly always does.”

Dr. Derrig-Palumbo recommends using Online Counseling to reach out initially, especially if there is a sense of shame that prevents someone from going to see a counselor in person.  “With online counseling, there is an enhanced sense of anonymity – and that opens the door for people who otherwise would not go get help in person.

For more information, please visit www.MyTherapyNet.com.

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LifeLINE: Olympic ripple effect inspires fitness goals

Monday, March 1st, 2010

Visit msnbc.com for breaking news, world news, and news about the economy

40% of TV Olympic Viewers say that watching the Olympics has inspired them to exercise more often.

LifeLINE: Olympic ripple effect inspires fitness goals.

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