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Russian boy’s return shocked, saddened driver – CNN.com

Tuesday, April 13th, 2010

Russian boy’s return shocked, saddened driver – CNN.com.

When I first started writing this blog, I endeavored to find a benign, almost sterile path to follow.  I didn’t want to offend anyone’s particular views or sensibilities.  I wanted to appeal to everyone.

That’s neither reasonable nor realistic.  First and foremost, that kind of blogging would be a treachery to read.

So the gloves are off, and if you get your feelings hurt, well, you should probably evaluate why your skin is so thin, because I’ll be sure not to engage in overtly controversial perspectives.

The mother and grandmother involved in sending the Russian boy back to Russia may not be criminally negligent, but they sure are spiritually negligent.

I see no mention of having taken this boy to family therapy.

If that is the case, shame on Nancy and Torri Hansen.

And I no longer accept the ridiculous notion that “I didn’t know to go to therapy”.

Everyone has seen the Sopranos.  If a MOBSTER can go to therapy, so you can you.

Get to therapy if there’s an issue in your life.  Enough with poor decisions and poor choices.  There’s a better way – it’s called counseling.  And now you can receive Online Counseling so that you do not even have to leave your home to get the help and guidance you need.

Nancy Hansen, this is directly to you – I am most certain that Torri was not a perfect child.  Had she been, she most likely never would have allowed this to happen.  So it is my guess that you had your share of trouble with Torri, and that you worked it out (poorly – but you didn’t drop her off at an orphanage).

Human beings are not dogs, and I’m not even sure I agree with adopting a dog and sending it back if it doesn’t go as planned.  As human beings, we know that nearly NOTHING goes as planned, that there are always challenges, and that the only path to happiness and success crosses through very demanding territory.

So, before signing off, let’s focus a little more generally.

Most of us have a limit to our patience.

Most of us have a bit of an asshole in us.

Most of us are not perfect parents.

Most of us want the best for our children.

If you have issues in your life – depression, stress, relationship problems (work or personal), then you’re not functioning optimally.  If you’re not functioning optimally, your friends and family suffer – period.  Lie to yourself all you want, but that’s the real, true end result.

Get some help for the love of Pete!  It’s right here, in your computer.  We don’t really care where you get it, just get it.  MyTherapyNet.com is highly reputable, is one of the first two companies in this market and has set the example for the entire industry.  It is secure, confidential and only staffed by licensed counselors.

But regardless of where you go for help – go get it.  And get it online if you’re thinking you’re too busy or you’re ashamed to go in person.

I want to end with something cute, but this is outrageous.  Get professional help Nancy and Torri Hansen.  It scares me to think of what other havoc you two are wrecking over there in Tennessee …

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4 missing West Virginia miners found dead – CNN.com

Friday, April 9th, 2010

4 missing West Virginia miners found dead – CNN.com.

Our thoughts and prayers are with the families and friends of all affected by the terrible mining tragedy in West Virginia.

MyTherapyNet.com will offer free counseling services to the families and friends of the victims of the tragedy.  For more information, please contact customerservice@mytherapynet.com

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Reid votes no on healthcare bill

Friday, March 26th, 2010

Reid casts wrong vote on health care for second time – CNN.com.

Again, we don’t take political sides at MyTherapyNet.

This story is about the psychology behind the things we unintentionally say.

We wanted to understand the psychological factors at play when Senator Reid voted twice opposite to his intention.

His response (through his office) is that it was because he was “so focused on getting health care passed.”

I spoke to two of the top psychologists in the nation this morning, Dr. Kathleene Derrig-Palumbo and Dr. Frank Lawlis.  I did not mention the issue with Senator Reid.  Instead, I simply asked – “if someone calls out an answer opposite to what they meant to say, what can that possibly mean?”  I then followed that up with, “what if they do it twice?”

Here’s what came back.

1.  It could be a repressed emotion.

2.  It could be a mistake.

3.  It could be repressed anger.

4.  In response to what doing it twice could mean, we’re told that it could unveil what a person is really feeling – it is the subconscious  allowing the truth come out.

For instance, if you ask a person “do you like to exercise”, and they respond “no … I mean, yes”.  They really don’t like it, but they want to believe that they do, or have others believe so.

Or it could just be a slip … or two.

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Biden’s f-bomb

Tuesday, March 23rd, 2010

Video – Breaking News Videos from CNN.com.

It’s always hard to comment on politically slanted stories without appearing to take sides.

Vice President Biden’s comment on the healthcare legislation takes the subject from a politicized topic to a human interest story, so we’re pretty safe to wade in these waters.

But if you’re expecting a judgment on his choice of language, you should move on to a politically charged blog.

We’re mental health.

And this is a man, whether you agree with his political positions or not, who seems to speak from his heart.  There’s something to be said about that.  Something positive, I believe.

But even if it is something negative, at least you know you’re directing your opinion at a person, not at a team of speech writers, political consultants and crisis management experts.

I find that in a highly charged political environment, it is rewarding to take a step back.  To take a look at the business and politics of being human.  At times like these, we get a clearer view of how we interact with each other, and what it is that we strive to accomplish from those interactions.

We very obviously want to be healthy.

We want to be heard – and more importantly feel that we have been heard.

We desire for our opinion to count.

We hope to be on the winning side.

We become excited.

Stressed.

Anxious.

Animated.  And that shows up as as anger, fear, joy … the full gamut of human emotion.

We feel alive.

We look alive!

Look at our country.  For better of worse, look at all the people who are so emphatically raising their voices … desiring, hoping and expecting to be heard.

Certainly, we believe fervently that the other side is wrong.  Of course they are … it’s crystal clear.  How they don’t see they are wrong is a complete mystery.

“I’m right, I have the answer.  Hear me.  She agrees with me.  He’s on my page.  She’s making sense.  Don’t listen to him. Why is she lying?  He’s betraying us.  Her politics are getting in the way of common sense.  His wallet is dictating policy.”

It’s a symphony.

If you take the time to listen and put your opinions aside – just for a moment – you will hear an Opera that Puccini could only dream of composing and that Paganini would have aspired to conduct.

It is one of the most beautiful sound ever heard on Mother Earth.

It is the sound of free people, raising their voice in unison.

Sure, they are singing different notes … but that is precisely what makes it so beautiful.  There is harmony, dissonance, melody and cacophony.

Truly, Americans are virtuosos at the instrument of passionate opinion.  We are a nation peopled by those who sought opportunity and freedom at great personal peril.

Americans appreciate what they have.

They appreciate the role the United States has had in supporting human rights and freedom for people in all parts of the world.

We’re the ones who do not skip a beat to come to the aid of those in trouble.

Vice President Biden said the “f-word”.  Many people criticize his gaffes.  Sure, there are smooth politicians who never slip up.  In the end, is the measure of a human being in the momentary lapses we all share, or is it in the sum total of our contribution to society?  Do the lapses, as many believe, reveal the true character of  a person?

Maybe.

But I’m going to leave judgment to God and the ever-after.

I’m content to revel in your opinion, whether you agree with me or not … just as long as you passionately throw in a couple of “f-bombs” every now and then …

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Google quits censoring search in China – CNN.com

Monday, March 22nd, 2010

Google quits censoring search in China – CNN.com.

Imagine living in China, where you no longer can “google” someone.

“Googling” is such a common part of our lives, that living without it is almost unimaginable.

We never used 411 as much as we use Google.

It’s a fairly vital and valuable business tool.

Effectively, the Chinese government has reduced workforce productivity by this policy of restricting free access to information.  Seems to me that’s the wrong direction for a country so entrenched in providing goods to the rest of us.

That is the direct cost to their productivity.  The indirect cost is the psychological impact that is surely taking a toll upon the Chinese citizens.   Many of us feel frustration on their behalf, imagine how they must be feeling.

Google’s statement is quite clear and they have quite a high profile.  They’re not doing business with China.  It will be interesting to see who follows suit in the coming months and years.

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